Whether I’m working with someone who is single, desiring to be in a relationship, a couple focusing on deepening their relationship, or business partners and their teams to create a more productive environment….the common ingredient in all cases is LOVE.
That may seem odd to some of you, given I mentioned the business connection. But I believe it’s true.
For the single person, I have them look at how they are loving themselves. ALL times, we find internal barriers that are keeping love away. The good news, we can easily remove them.
The same is for couples. When we share deep connections and intimacy, our partner is a wonderful mirror for finding the places within ourselves that have been wounded. In an environment of love, that which is NOT love rises to the surface. The times where we have felt judged, unloved and appreciated emerges. And it plays out in the relationship. ANYONE in a relationship knows what I’m talking about. However, we were never really taught what to do about that.
The same is true in a business environment. Everyone brings what they value about themselves, but acknowledgement, encouragement and communications are also critical for keeping innovation and productivity at a high level, because, they too have ‘issues in their tissues.’
So, on the surface, it appears to the single person that there are no good men or women out there. But let’s face it: the common denominator is you. If no one is showing up, why might that be happening? I bet you’ve asked yourself that question many times already. Or if you keep attracting the same kind of person, once again, there is something that lives within you that is running the show.
Obviously, if you want a different outcome, you need to get to the source, remove it, then position yourself to FINALLY experience what you deeply desire. Which, fortunately, is easy now to do.
And to take this in the simplest of terms: it has to do with how much you love yourself, feel you deserve to be loved, and the love you are offering to your partner, your friends, your business associates, etc.
And, if you are not experiencing what your heart longs for, start with loving yourself more. By doing a simple exercise, you can gently begin to shift. All you need to do is look at yourself in the mirror, and say “I LOVE YOU.” (and you want to say this at least 10-15 times). It may seem odd or even uncomfortable at first, but if you do this on a daily basis, little by little you will experience a shift. There is a part of you that is HUNGRY for acknowledgement and validation. Most of us are walking around feeling unworthy of love. It’s unfortunately one of the most common human conditions existing today.
The feeling of love also holds an energetic vibration that can literally change the way you feel. It actually can change the way OTHERS feel. We have documentation to support that statement.
I have gone into high schools, speaking to youth about the Power Of Love…and how they can help fill the empty tanks of many of their classmates. It’s easy, and no one even has to know you are doing it!
So if YOUR love tank needs filling, look into a mirror, look yourself in the eyes and say how much you love yourself, over and over again. I promise, it will make a difference.
And, if someone is need of their love tank being filled, simply SEND them some love energetically. YES, it really does work.
In fact….I’m sending you a lot of love right now!
I hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend!
Enjoy!
