I’ve just returned from another wonderful week at CEO Space. CEO Space is a business growth organization, dedicated to supporting business owners to accelerate their success. I am blessed to be one of their faculty and mentors, specializing in the relationship you have with your money and success.
Even though we’re focusing on business, I am always touched by the number of people I have conversations with that would really love to have that special someone in their life. I know how important that is. And I also know how it can impact your success (both negatively and positively).
When I meet with a new client, I’m not only interested, but also concerned, with how much they have possibly overcompensated for NOT having someone in their life. They may have experienced great success with their work/business. But I also see, time and time again, that some of their business desires are beginning to lessen, the wind is going out of their sails.
We are simply not designed to live life alone. We are hard wired for love, connection, and companionship.
But have you ever wondered what has happened that it seems to be more difficult today, than ever before, to have a happy and healthy relationship?
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Without getting overly philosophical, we live in a different world today. We have different responsibilities. We expect more out of our lives. It’s not ‘enough’ for many people to ‘just’ earn an income. And we don’t want ‘just’ a relationship. We want a soulful relationship. A deep connection with that person. To be with someone that makes our lives better because we are together.
But this is what I’ve also discovered.
Remember that overcompensation ‘piece’ I mentioned earlier? This can create a barrier that prevents you from actually attracting and connecting with the love of your life. Your ‘receiver’ is off and it’s making it challenging for you.
In fact, for those of you in relationships, this can also interfere in the giving and receiving of love.
I know, in my own life, it’s easy for me to get caught up in the many aspects and details of my work. And, combined with some of my early conditioning, when I begin juggling a too many balls, my ‘receiver’ becomes defective. Not only do I create a barrier to receive more love and support…I’m actually also creating a barrier to experience more desired results in my business.
It’s an interesting dance.
So if you wonder if you’ve created a barrier for yourself, whether you are single or in a relationship, one quick way to figure it out is simply look at the experiences you are having in your life. How’s your love life? How’s your energy? How happy are you? How’s business/work? By checking your barometer in these categories you can determine to what extent your ‘receiver’ is working…or possibly not.
To begin, take a little time out, relax and simply BREATHE. And breathe a little deeper and longer than usual, and keep doing this for a few minutes. As you relax, you can open yourself up to RECEIVE more!
Of course there is more…….but this is a great start.
Enjoy!
